Meanings of polite words for children. Verbal garbage that wastes souls

Nadezhda Kovaleva
Conversation “Polite words for kids”

Conversation with children on the topic: « Polite words for kids» .

Target: to cultivate a culture of behavior in children.

(Using ICT, paintings, you can play with a fairy-tale hero).

Guys, what words What do people say to each other when they meet? (children's answers).

That's right, when meeting, cultured people always say hello. Speaking "Hello", we wish each other health and prosperity.

According to etiquette (rules of behavior in society, the youngest greet the elders first. If the ages are the same, then boys and girls, men and women.

Guys, what other ones are very important ( "magical") you know the words? (children's answers).

Yes, very important words"Please" And "Thank you"! When do you say them?

Never forget to speak "Thank you", if someone helped you and did something good! Good deeds should not go without gratitude!

What should you do if you made a mistake or accidentally hurt someone? That's right, be sure to apologize! It’s not difficult, and people will quickly forget this minor trouble and will not be offended by you.

(Look at the picture. Answer questions: Is it necessary to apologize in this situation? Who should do this)

What will we say when we say goodbye? (Goodbye). What if we are seeing someone off? (Bon voyage).

Well done, guys! I really hope you remember all these "magical words» and you will always use them in your speech. Be sure to ask mom and dad in the evening what polite words they know in what situation they need to be used, and tomorrow you will tell us.

Publications on the topic:

Leisure “Polite words” Municipal autonomous preschool educational institution of a general developmental type, kindergarten "Solnyshko" with. Terbuny Terbunsky municipal.

Communication game “Polite words” Game "Polite words". Goal: continue to teach children to use “magic” words in their speech; cultivate politeness and goodwill.

Abstract of the educational activity "Polite words and manners" 2nd junior group Abstract of the educational activity “Polite words and manners” 2nd junior group Goal: promoting the moral development of children. Objectives: - consolidate the ability to use.

Summary of the lesson on communicative development for the junior group “Polite words” Summary of a lesson on communicative development for the younger group Topic “POLITE WORDS” Educator Olga Kolesen Goal: Create conditions for development.

Summary of a lesson on speech development “Kind and polite words” Summary of a lesson on speech development “Kind and polite words.” Topic: “Kind and polite words.” Purpose: Encourage children to engage in dialogue.

Lesson notes for the first junior group “Polite words.” Lesson notes for the first junior group “Polite words.” Goal: developing a culture of communication and a culture of behavior. Objectives: Continue.

Summary of a lesson in the middle group on the topic: “Polite words” Purpose: To consolidate the ability to use words of gratitude and polite words in speech.

Russian speech is filled with polite (magical) words that bring goodness, joy, and hope to humanity. Pronouncing useful phrases makes people more responsive, softer, and more cultured. Let's assume there are no polite expressions in the Russian language. Significant changes will follow immediately. A worthy deed will go unnoticed, a simple request will become an order, ordinary speech will seem impudent, will cause discontent, ruin the mood...

Children and adults taught magic words realize the power of spoken language, reinforcing personal and business success. It is important to be able to speak kind words in a timely and sincere manner.

List of polite words:

Greetings upon meeting and contact

1. Hello (you live well, we wish you health)
2. Good morning (good afternoon, good evening)
3. Hello (greetings, hello, salute, hello)

When getting to know each other

1. Hello
2. Introduction: first name, last name, patronymic
3. Nice to meet you
4. Nice to meet you

Words of gratitude

1. Thank you
2. Thank you
3. Grateful
4. Touched by the attention
5. Our respect

Words when apologizing

1. Sorry
2. Sorry
3. I'm sorry
4. Regret

Words of request

1. Please
2. Please
3. Show kindness, generosity

When saying goodbye

1. Goodbye (see you later)
2. All the best (all the best)
3. All the best
4. Good luck

When talking on the phone

1. Hello
2. Good morning (good: afternoon, evening)
3. Hello
4. Do you have time to talk?
5. Is it convenient to have a conversation now?
6. Thank you
7. Touched by the attention
8. Goodbye (meetings)

List for children

• Hello;
• good morning, good afternoon, good evening;
• Excuse me, please;
• Thank you;
• Good night;
• Goodbye;
• Please;
• allow;
• let me ask, find out, inquire;
• Bon appetit;
• let me help;
• help yourself or take it, please;
• Nice to meet you.

Is it important to say polite words?

People live surrounded by magic, reflected in natural phenomena, art, and everyday life. The power of magic lies in words spoken constantly in infinite quantities. Surprisingly, with phrases and expressions the interlocutor can hurt, offend or inspire, delight, amuse.

How to ensure that the communicating individual receives positive energy?

People want to hear nice words. Pronouncing polite phrases fills the soul with warmth, light, hope, and peace.

Adults, kids, teenagers have verbal magic

It is important to skillfully use magic, teach children kind, useful phrases, and correctly use magical expressions. A sufficient number of polite phrases are used every day during meetings, acquaintances, requests, farewells, and telephone conversations. You need to remember the “magic” phrases, pronounce them on time and correctly.

Thanks to polite words, people are able to do good, make a pleasant impression when meeting someone, and find a true friend, girlfriend, life partner, or business partner.

People are constantly convinced of the magical power of polite expression, regardless of the purpose. In the morning, when meeting a neighbor, friend, fellow student, a boy, a girl, a pensioner greets them by saying “Hello”, “Hello” and is sure to hear a warm greeting. People are inspired, charged with positive energy, the warmth of words inspires positivity, and a smile appears.

Farewell is necessarily accompanied by the phrases “See you”, “Goodbye”, which confirm the importance of communication. The interlocutors express friendliness and give hope for new meetings.

What to do if you need help?

You should ask, sincerely saying, “Please help,” “Please do me a favor.” The interlocutor to whom kind phrases are addressed will pay attention and will definitely show goodwill.

What words are used when meeting a girl, guy or manager?

It is important to make an impression so that they are noticed, appreciated, want to continue communication, and invited to work. There are a lot of polite expressions when meeting someone - “Allow me to introduce myself,” “Nice to meet you,” etc. The main thing is to say it sincerely, as sincerely as possible. The interlocutor will definitely show interest, appreciate your intelligence, and understand how pleasant it is to communicate.

It's harder to apologize

You need to choose the right polite words and say them with a feeling of great regret. This will help restore previous relationships with your partner, friends, and family. Phrases of apology make people feel better. The interlocutors soften and show goodwill.

The importance of using polite words is undeniable

Magic expressions and phrases help to win over your interlocutor, evoke positive emotions and attention. People who use useful words, phrases, expressions are pleasant, attractive, and interesting when communicating. Polite words lift your spirits and allow you to enjoy peace of mind, regardless of age, gender, status, or employment.

Words of politeness must be spoken constantly; they are the key to successful activities in everyday life!

What are the rules of politeness when speaking?

Rules of politeness- the most basic canons of a well-mannered citizen. A polite person is a true friend, a pleasant companion, a welcome guest.

There are many laws of politeness when communicating with a large number of people or two people. The main thing is not to forget to pronounce, correctly and timely use the magic words.

In addition to knowledge, the use of kind phrases and expressions: the need to demonstrate competent behavioral tactics when talking with an interlocutor:

1. When a stranger makes a request, you need to put things aside, show maximum respect, and take an active part in the conversation.
2. Interrupting the person leading the conversation is bad manners. You need to listen carefully, be patient, and wait until the end of the conversation. Comments, hints, and expressions of opinions during the interlocutor’s story are inappropriate.
3. Is the conversation taking place surrounded by people? You should show culture; you cannot react to speech addressed to the person sitting next to you.
4. The tactless behavior of a communicating person must be gently stopped and the conversation stopped.
5. Is there a discussion going on or insulting people? Try to change the topic of conversation.
6. A long conversation is considered bad manners.
7. Communication involves showing politeness, attentiveness, and tact. Does your interlocutor need to leave urgently? You need to end the conversation in a timely manner. It is necessary to change the topic of conversation if the people present are not interested in listening.
8. Non-standard phrases should be excluded. The meanings of expressions may be unknown or incomprehensible to the interlocutor.
9. When communicating with a friend, acquaintance, relative, you cannot criticize, discuss, or slander absent people. Otherwise, an unpleasant environment will be created. You need to say good things about those who are absent, or just remain silent.
10. Communicating and waving your arms is a sign of bad taste, showing the individual’s bad manners. You need to clearly and clearly express your own thoughts.

The information provided will help you understand the importance of polite expressions. By pronouncing magic phrases, people make the world around them bright, kind, and rich.

It is better to present the rules of behavior to a child in a playful way to make it clearer and more accessible. For this you can use riddles and games about polite words presented below.

Riddles

Don't be too lazy to tell your friends

Smiling...

(Good afternoon)

Saying goodbye to each other

We'll say...

(Goodbye)

Don't blame each other

Better soon...

(Sorry)

How beautiful it is

Good word...

(Thank you)

When you are guilty, you are in a hurry to say

I beg you, please-

(Sorry)

Never get involved in someone else's conversation,

And you are better than adults...

(Don't interrupt)

Even a block of ice will melt

From a warm word...

(Thank you)

The old stump will turn green,

When he hears...

(Good afternoon)

If you can't eat anymore,

Let's tell mom...

(Thank you)

The boy is polite and affectionate

He says when meeting...

(Hello)

When we are scolded for our pranks,

Let's talk...

(Excuse me please)

Both in France and Denmark

They say goodbye...

(Goodbye)

If a friend meets a friend,
Friends shake each other's hands
In response to a greeting
Everyone says...

(Hello)

I wrote a letter to my mother

Yesterday I answered

And at the end he conveyed

To all friends...

(Hello)

If with a friend or girlfriend

The separation was long

When we meet we say:

“How old and...”

(How many winters)

If you met someone,

According to the laws of etiquette,

So that the conversation goes uphill,

We ask: “How...”

(Affairs)

***
Don't be rude to older people
And don't be too familiar
Tell them when you meet
Not “hello”, but...

(Hello)

***
Our world is tired of evil,
So that he becomes kinder,
We are not too lazy to talk
When meeting...

(Good afternoon)

Masha knew a lot of words,

But one of them is missing

And it’s like a sin,

It is said most often.

This word follows

For a gift, for lunch,

This word is said

If you are thanked.

(Thank you)

Children Dasha and Egorka

Pizza cheese is grated.

The mice are asking from the hole:

“Give me! Be..."

(So ​​kind)

***

Puppy Phil was walking in the yard,

Suddenly I met an old bulldog.

I ask you to quickly guess:

Who should say “hello” first?

(Puppy Phil, because he is younger, and the younger ones are the first to greet the older ones)

Here comes the lapdog Zhulka,

Fashionista, imaginary...

And towards me - a gentleman,

Cute Scotch Terrier.

Can you guess it or not:

Who will be the first to say “hello”?

(A Scotch Terrier, because he is a man, and a man is the first to greet female acquaintances)

Below are some funny ones riddles about polite words by Olesya Emelyanova.

Games

1. “Learning magic words”

Tell your child what polite words mean, that people in different countries greet each other differently, and all languages ​​have such magic words.

Learn magic words that are close in meaning - “Hello” and “Good afternoon”, “Goodbye” and “See you soon”, etc.

Or you can learn polite words in different languages ​​of the world. For example, the word “Hello” or “Hello”.

Hello is the most popular and useful word for a traveler. And it’s the simplest thing, so it won’t hurt to know how to say hello in different languages ​​of the world. It is interesting to note that a greeting from another language is not always literally translated into Russian as “hello”; often it will mean “good afternoon” or “hello”, and sometimes even “peace be with you”.

2. "Be careful"

This game is best played with several children. You need to ask the children to complete the task, but they must complete it only when you call the “magic word”. Below are examples of commands, you can use them, or you can come up with your own.
Please stand up!
Raise your hands!
Please clap your hands!
Stomp.
Jump please.
Please, hands forward.
Please put your hands down.
Please, tilt your head forward.
Tilt it back, please.
To the left.
Right.
Please, take your seats.

3. “Polite is impolite”

Rules of the game. If you read about a polite act, children clap their hands 2 times. When you read about an impolite act, children stomp their feet 2 times. You can also come up with other fun moves.

Examples of actions:

Say hello when you meet
Push and don't apologize
Whistling, shouting, making noise at school
Give way to elders
Do not stand up when asked by the teacher
Help climb the stairs
Say goodbye when leaving

4. “Polite watch”

This is a warm-up game that can be played with one child or several. Children pretend to be a clock. Two hands are arrows that move around an imaginary dial.

Leading: Tiki-tock, tiki-tock -

The clock goes like this.

The clock struck seven in the morning,

All the kids were woken up.

Children clap their hands seven times to imitate the striking of a clock: bom-bom.

Leading: The morning has come

The sun has risen...

Answer me guys

What should you say when you wake up?

Children: Good morning!

The game continues. The arrows are moving again; The clock is ticking and now shows twelve o'clock in the afternoon.

Leading: The day has come, guys;

What should you say when you meet?

Children: Good afternoon

The game continues in the same way.

Leading: The arrows ticked and walked

And six o'clock struck.

Children clap their hands six times.

Leading: The evening has come, guys.

What should you say when you meet?

Children: Good evening.

Leading: Well done!

5. “Polite tram”

This game is best played in a large group. Because it involves the driver, conductor and passengers. Children line up one after another like a train, pretending to be tram passengers. The driver stands in front, holding a toy steering wheel. The conductor treats passengers generously, issuing tickets not for money, but for polite words (thank you, please, be kind, excuse me, hello, etc.). In this case, the same word should not be repeated twice.

Tickets can be made from paper, old postcards or calendar cards.

If one of the passengers finds it difficult to say a polite word, one of the passenger friends can buy a ticket for it. But at the same time, knowledge of the magic polite words is mandatory.

If no one can rescue the stowaway, the conductor sends him to the driver. The advantage of the driver is that he can say any polite words, even those that have already been spoken. When all passengers are satisfied, the polite tram departs.

Teaching a child to be polite and courteous is not as difficult as it might seem at first glance. Of course, you can and should use personal example, conversations, conversations, and role-playing games for these purposes. But one of the simplest and most interesting ways to teach politeness can be poetry.

How to choose poems?

Choosing suitable verses from the whole variety is quite simple. First, decide what exactly you would like to teach your baby: polite words (thank you, please, hello, goodbye, etc.) or actions (give way, help carry mom’s bag, etc.). And then, using any search engine on the Internet, look for suitable works. There are a lot of poems about politeness - they were written by classics (Barto, Marshak), they are composed by mothers and teachers. The choice is practically unlimited.

How does this work?

Children listen to poetry with pleasure and, as a rule, empathize with the characters very much and give an emotional assessment of their actions or words. You can use this feature of children's perception and discuss with the baby what the hero of the poem did well and what not so well. Ask leading questions: “What should you have done?”, “What would a polite boy do?”, “Do others like the hero’s behavior or not? Is it pleasant to communicate with such a boy/girl? In addition, you can use poems in which the child must guess the last word in the quatrain - this is a game, a training, and an educational process at the same time.

Poems about politeness

Poem No. 1: “Thank you” (A. Barto)

In response to hello
He is not silent, like a fish.
In response to hello
Says - thank you!

Football ticket
Would you bring it to him?
For this - thank you,
Thank you, thank you!

What if he
They would have saved me from the test,
For this - thank you,
One hundred thousand thanks!

What if behind him
The guys came running
To help someone
Have you been invited somewhere?

Well then! And then
He was not silent, like a fish,
I would say in response:
“We made friends! Thank you!"

Poem No. 2: “If you are polite...” (S. Marshak)

If you are polite
And they are not deaf to conscience,
You are the place without protest
Give in to the old woman.

And if you are polite,
Then, sitting in class,
You won't be with a friend
Chatter like two magpies.

And if you are polite,
Then in a conversation with my aunt
And with grandfather and grandmother
You won't kill them.

And if you are polite,
To the one who is weaker
You will be the protector
Do not shy away from the strong.

If you are polite.
In the soul, not for show
In the trolleybus you will help
Climb for a disabled person.

And if you are polite
Will you help mom?
And offer her help
Without asking - that is, on their own.

And if you are polite,
Then thank everyone
And the little ones have a ball
Don't take it without asking!

Poem No. 3: “Kind words” (O. Driz)

Kind words are not laziness
Repeat to me three times a day.
I'll just go out the gate,
To everyone going to work,

Blacksmith, weaver, doctor,
Good morning! - I scream.
Good afternoon - I shout after
Everyone going to lunch!

"Good evening!" - that’s how I greet you
Everyone rushing home for tea.

Poem No. 4: “Polite words” (O. Emelyanova)

Having met a bunny, the hedgehog is a neighbor
He tells him: “...”
(Hello!)

And his neighbor is big-eared
Answers: “Hedgehog,...”
(Hello!)

To the Octopus Flounder
On Monday I swam
And on Tuesday goodbye
She told her: “...”
(Goodbye!)

Clumsy dog ​​Kostya
The mouse stepped on its tail.
They would quarrel
But he said "..."
(Sorry!)

Wagtail from the shore
Dropped a worm
And fish for a treat
She gurgled: “...”
(Thank you!)

Fat cow Lula
She was eating hay and sneezed.
So as not to sneeze again,
We will tell her: “...”
(Bless you!)

Poem No. 5: “Lyubochka” (A. Barto)

Blue skirt
Ribbon in a braid.
Who doesn't know Lyubochka?
Everyone knows Lyuba.

Girls at the holiday
They will gather in a circle.
How Lyubochka dances!
Best of all friends.

The skirt is spinning too
And a ribbon in my braid,
Everyone is looking at Lyubochka,
Everyone is happy.

But if to this Lyubochka
You will come to the house
There you are that girl
It's hard to find out.

She still screams from the doorway,
Announces as he goes:
- I have a lot of lessons,
I won't go for bread!

Lyubochka is riding on a tram -
She doesn't take a ticket.
Pushing everyone apart with your elbows,
He makes his way forward.

She says, pushing:
- Ugh! What cramped conditions!—
She says to the old woman:
- These are children's places.
“Well, sit down,” she sighs.

Blue skirt
Ribbon in a braid.
That's what Lyubochka is like
In all its glory.

It happens that girls
They can be very rude
Although not necessary
They are called Lyubs.

Poem No. 7: The word “Please”

The word is like a key
Golden and fabulous
Like the brightest ray,
Call him "Please".

In the yard, in the family, in the garden,
This word works
The one who gets along with him,
Everything in the world will come true.

Natalia Gordeeva
Campaign “Polite words”

Goals:

Expand stock « polite words» .

Make children aware of the need to follow rules politeness.

Nurture goodness polite attitude to each other.

Promote the moral development of the child’s personality.

Tasks:

Introduce the concept « politeness» , show how it manifests itself politeness,

Show the need for use in speech « polite» words;

Foster a culture of communication

Develop respect and a friendly attitude towards people;

To develop cognitive interest and broaden children's horizons.

Vocabulary work: politeness, kindness, polite words(Hello, goodbye, forgive me, please, excuse me, be kind, be kind, be healthy, bon voyage, good voyage, good morning, thank you, all the best, good night,)

Preliminary work: conversation about politeness, about the meaning polite words; reading works of fiction; learning physical education lessons.

Equipment: Flowers, sunshine, polite words, soundtrack of the song "Smile".

Hello guys. Despite the fact that it is frosty and windy outside, I would like to wish you warmth and goodness. You are calm and kind, friendly and affectionate. I smiled at you, and you will smile at each other. Wish each other something good in your mind.

BE SO KIND

"Be so kind", "Be so kind" -

These phrases will be very useful to you.

If you say them together with your request,

Then no one can refuse the request.

Guys, have you guessed what we will talk about today? (answers)

Right! Today we will talk about polite words. What is this words? (answers)

These are kind, simple and useful words.

Why do you think this is words became polite words(answers)

Right! Because without polite words You just can’t live in the world.

These words one must not only know, but also be able to pronounce them. Kind word can cheer a person up in difficult times. When we say these words, then we sincerely wish those we meet goodness and joy. And our heart opens to sincere and kind people. And sometimes kind, affectionate word can help put a person in a good mood, as these words are not only kind, but also magical. That's why try to use magic spells as often as possible. words, from which one becomes warmer and happier in the soul.

People have always treated kindness in a special way. There is one proverb: Kind the word pleases the cat too. This means that not only do each of us like to be treated with kindness, even animals understand kindness.

And what proverbs and you know sayings about kindness (Children call proverbs that they know about kindness and politeness)

Speak boldly about a good deed.

Life is given for good deeds.

Hello is not complicated, but it wins the heart.

Affectionate word better than a soft pie.

As you live, so will your reputation.

- Well done! You know and proverbs and sayings. But just remember that good word and politeness– the best cure for anger and rudeness. There are many rules, but the main thing in them is to take care of loved ones, always be friendly to people, and be able to be friends.

In order to become polite Well-mannered, you need to learn a few rules politeness.

The first rule is that it is important to remember the main polite words which are so necessary in everyday life. Now I'll see how you know them.

If you step on your foot

At least by chance, at least a little,

Speak right away: "Sorry"

Or better - "Sorry".

Everyone will say goodbye

Leaving, everyone "Goodbye".

It's time for a friend to leave -

We'll tell him "Bye".

If you broke a toy

A friend or suddenly a girlfriend,

You tell them "Sorry"

And offer them yours.

"Welcome" guests,

They say it here and there.

The guests are leaving home

“Bon voyage!” we wish.

If grandma is in the morning

I gave you a pie

Take it, tell me "Thank you" -

Grandma will be happy!

To ask for something

Need to be polite.

We "Please" let's add -

Everyone will be happy with us.

If you are on a name day

Friend Sasha was invited

He brought a beautiful flower -

We'll tell him "Thank you".

Suddenly someone treated me to candy

Or gave something

"Thank you" speak for it

To you were polite.

Well done! You know the main ones polite words.

Why do you think it is that people know these polite words, but they are not always pronounced (answers)

Certainly. But there is no need to be afraid or embarrassed to say these kind words, polite words. And besides, you need to find the right ones in time words, be able to use them. And this is the second rule that you need to remember.

- Thus, we have come to the third rule. politeness– it is important not only to know these rules politeness, but also try to fulfill them.

Game: "Funny riddles"

These riddles are special. If the riddle itself teaches good and politeness, then in response to it the whole chorus should say: “This is me, this is me, these are all my friends!”

The riddles are quite tricky; when solving them, you also have to be very careful. Guys, listen, don’t get distracted, you’re needed say the words on time, and to a cunning riddle - remain silent.

Which of you, waking up cheerfully,

"Good morning!" will he say firmly?

Which one of you is okay?

Bag, books and notebooks?

Which one of you is silent like a fish?

Instead of a kind “thank you”? -Which one of you, brothers, tell me?

Forgets to wash your face?

Which one of you is in a cramped tram?

Gives place to elders?

Who to be wishes to be polite,

Doesn't it offend kids?

Fizminutka: "Sun"

The sun is sleeping, because the night has come, (Folded palms to the left cheek, to the right cheek.)

Even the wind doesn't make any noise.

Early in the morning the sun rose (They raised their hands up and stretched.)

Sent all its rays. (We swing our arms up.)

Suddenly a breeze blew, (We swing our arms open to the sides.)

The sky is overcast, (Covered their face with their hands.)

And shook the trees. (Swing of the body to the left, to the right.)

The rain pattered on the roofs, (Jumping in place.)

The rain drums on the roofs, (Clap our hands.)

The sun is sinking lower. (Bends forward.)

So it hid behind the clouds, (We squat.)

Not a single ray is visible. (They stood up and hid their hands behind their backs.)

We've finished warming up. (Stretched)

Rested your legs and backs.

Game: « Polite - impolite»

If politely clap twice, impolite – 1 time.

Say good morning...

Push your friend, but don't apologize.

Say hello when you meet.

Interrupt adults during a conversation.

Be able to listen to the teacher...

Don't offend girls.

Be able to maintain silence during classes.

Talk loudly.

Hurting animals...

-Say at lunch: "Bon appetit".

Say as you leave the garden to go home "Goodbye"…

Call it offensive in the words of a friend.

I see that you have learned well polite words. Now you can say these kind words polite and magic words and houses, and in kindergarten, and in the store, and in other places where you visit.

Productive activities of children (manual labor). Making a sun with rays. The music of V. Shainsky “Smile” sounds.

And at the end of our lesson, I suggest you make a sun with magic rays that will delight us and our guests. (children independently glue the rays from in polite words, give guests small sunshine, and big sunshine for kids)

MBDOU-kindergarten "Rainbow" r. Lysye Gory village, Saratov region

preparatory group "Droplets"

deputy head according to UMR Gordeeva N. G.