Hello.
I'm turning 18 soon. And I have problems with my family.
The problem is that no one cares about me.
I am not the only child in the family, I have an older brother. Even when I was a child, I noticed that no one paid attention to me. I remember when I was 6, I fell on purpose so that my mother would somehow take care of me. Although, you know, it hurts because they care, but they do it as if it is their responsibility, as if someone is forcing them to do it.
I was always an exemplary girl, I always studied well, behaved correctly, did everything right, always won at school competitions, I was an excellent student to the end, and now I study for free at a prestigious academy (I entered on my own). It’s already a session and I don’t care anymore, I don’t want to study well anymore, I don’t want to do everything right so as not to disappoint my parents. Tomorrow is a history test, I don’t know anything and I don’t want to know, I don’t want to prepare, I’m tired. My dream is to move to New York and become a vocalist/actress. But as soon as I start talking about my dream, my mother starts screaming, yelling and saying that I dream about the impossible and, in general, I can’t leave, I have to stay, I don’t care about the dream, the main thing is family, but I don’t need to change the world (and I want to change the world , at least a little). My parents say that they will help me leave only when I finish my studies at the academy. But I can’t wait 3 years; I won’t be able to earn that much myself, because in our country you can’t work without a diploma and experience. And our family is rich, our parents do not allow us to work. I live alone, my parents live in another city with my brother, his wife and newborn child. My brother is 23. He is the real one bad person. Dad complains about him all the time, but Mom adores him. My brother doesn’t work, he entered college (with his father’s help) and doesn’t study, dad spends money so that the institute gives him grades and at the end they give him a diploma, in general, dad does everything for him, bought him cars (more than one), gave him money for the wedding to take place, constantly buys clothes, food and everything else for him. No, don’t think, I’m not jealous, because my parents also give me money and a lot, but, damn it, why do they only give me money? Where is the love, care, understanding? Where is it all? Why do they call only once a day to find out if she died or killed herself? It happens that they don’t call at all, they don’t remember. I do everything myself all the time. I wouldn't be angry if my parents understood and supported me. Their fake smiles are killing me. First they smile, then they yell or they don’t care about me at all.
I have no friends. I have no one to talk to about my problems, no one supports me.
I don't know how to deal with this problem. Ignore the situation? Become a stone?
Don't know. It's hard to be nobody.
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Alex, age: 17 / 05/25/2014
Responses:Alex!Who are you studying for? What does it mean not to disappoint them? Will you respect yourself if you slip up? You are a fully grown person, develop yourself, study, since God gave you good abilities. As for New York, if you are lonely in another city, in another country it will be a thousand times worse. As for brother, but you probably don’t want to be like him, you want to be more independent, so you live your own life, make decisions; read the letters here, young people are grieving that there is no freedom, there is dictatorship from their parents, there are no funds. So everything is fine with you. BUT There is one thing. You need to establish an emotional connection with the family, with each family member. Call yourself, it’s not the guy, but your relatives, they can also say that you rarely call. Of course, living in the same house, everything is easier. But apparently, your family is good. Most likely, they don’t even realize that they are doing something wrong. They can rely on you, you are smart, this is often the case with such daughters, since an independent, reasonable person, you can not control, switch to a problem child... Try to build communication in such a way that there would be more warmth, care, interest in them on your part. Ask for advice, open up your needs for support. When you carry and give birth to a child, you will understand that it is very difficult not to love your child and they love you. And there are difficulties with the ability to express love. There are many articles on the site about parents, read. They don’t kick your brother out of the house, they don’t force you to work, they let you finish your studies ?They want him to have an education? But it’s as if he was sick with a fever, and people fussed around him more than around a healthy child. This is nothing more and nothing less love. I think they respect you more than him. And he may envy you: the girl is younger, but she has achieved everything herself, lives on her own, studies. And he’s on his parents’ neck, and with his family, and even at his dad’s expense. He may not be ashamed of this, but objectively, everything is much better with you, just establish an adult connection with your family, it’s time not to look for care, but manifest it.
Natasha, age: 35 / 05/27/2014
Alex, Good evening. Good luck at the session - first of all. And secondly, study well for yourself, not for your parents. Although I agree with them that education is necessary in our time. Neither in New York nor in Tokyo is a higher education diploma ignored. Sometimes of course they become successful people without education, self-taught, but their number is negligible. So don’t give up studying, especially since you’re so smart and you’re good at studying.
And I would also advise you to work as a volunteer. The most different people need help and attention. Your efforts in their direction will pay off handsomely for your soul. You can help old people, children in an orphanage.
My friend, a veterinarian, works several hours a day for free in a nursery for homeless animals. I myself, as a translator, help with the translation of documents in one charitable organization, of course, for free. In winter, several of my friends helped prepare lunches and distributed them in the dining room special service for homeless people.
The choice is yours, but it seems to me that such an experience will be useful to you.
And don't judge your parents harshly. Do you want to change the world and the people around you? Start with yourself!
Lyubasha, age: 35 / 05/28/2014
Hello!
If you stand in the shoes of your parents, you will see their problems. What do they have too hard life problems at work, problems at home, disagreements in relationships, they probably quarrel with each other sometimes, something probably isn’t going well in their relationships with their children, maybe they’re not so young anymore, they get tired a lot, there are psychological difficulties like everyone else. With all these problems, can they always be very sensitive and friendly, attentive to you? Of course, they sincerely treat you well, but there is simply a burden of problems (external and internal) that interferes, so it seems to you that they are smiling at you falsely, but in fact this is impossible, they are your parents and cared a lot about you and continue how much strength they have. If they can tell you anything, how is it possible for them to smile falsely? What benefit might they be trying to gain from smiling at you?
Forgive me for these words, but you are a big selfish person. Because you think that your parents owe and owe you, but you don’t owe them anything. You want to leave them for New York (leave them) for their own money. and you perceive their feasible manifestations of kindness incorrectly and completely devalue the good things they do for you.
In fact, it seems to me that this is a very wrong and indifferent attitude towards them on your part in many ways. And in this case, how can they show sincere and full-fledged love in response to this? The fact that they can smile at you in such conditions is already a lot, when the daughter practically does not love or appreciate them, and sees only shortcomings.
Look, of course, I could easily be wrong, but besides you, who else can honestly understand your heart. To be honest, you look at your feelings for your parents. Do you have respect and love for them? Do you value them, do you have enough warmth for them that they can see it? And it could warm them and somehow support them. How, in this case, can they be so kind and rejoice when, on the part of their daughter, they good attitude they don’t see, but mostly displeasure with them.
But nothing. Of course you have all these feelings, but weak.
It seems to me from your letter that your parents love and care for you, but it seems to me that you do not understand this and deny in many ways. They gave you a lot from childhood, raised you, paid for everything, and you basically have everything you need, at least even in material life- this is also a lot, how they can express their love, this is not just an obligation, they do it voluntarily, no one forces them. If they consider it their duty, then it is still their sincere attitude towards you, how can you not sincerely consider something good as your duty? Because you are not a stranger to them, they think so, that’s why they do what they do. Our parents have already given us everything they could, all their basic potential, we also need to give them something in return.
why don't you dream of a good relationship with your family, is this dream worse? After all, in New York you can find happiness, or you can easily not find it (given the very strong Western propaganda against Russia and especially Russians, there may be many obstacles there because of this. I read and think about this a lot, and although this is not the case The same thing as going and seeing, but it allows us to draw a certain conclusion that it is not easy for Russians to succeed there, and there is a lot of evidence about this). But even if you can become a successful actress, you will not be able to feel good and happy while there is a conflict with the people closest to you. Many successful actresses and models use drugs, this is actually the finish line of their lives, they use because they have success, which makes their head spin, but there is no real peace, joy, stability, because there is no basis - good qualities and relationships with others, with other people, so there is a lot of excitement but there seems to be no happiness. And all these emotions and experiences make it very difficult for them, even though they seem to be popular. They use drugs to relieve tension, and then everything gets worse. To be happy, you just need to become better yourself. To change the world, you also need to become better, and without good relationships with loved ones this will not happen. I also want to change the world. I, too, like you, am an idealist. An idealist needs to be realistic. Dream about good things, about things that are highly significant for others, set high expectations for yourself good goals, but you need to move towards them not through just fantasies and dreams that are not related to their causes, but through those actions that actually bring you closer. If you keep getting better and better good person, then change the world a little, it will become one more good. If you don't treat your loved ones well, how can you? And without changing ourselves, we cannot bring anything outside; there will be nothing to give to others. Respect and gratitude to parents are very high ideals, it changes the world in the fact that if you have these qualities, which are truly high and very good, then you can set an example and help others. Globally putting something in the world on its feet is very difficult, almost not a realistic goal at all, but if everyone little by little brings something good into the world, then the world will change. If in society in all countries there are many good people, then there will inevitably be good politicians and all the leaders. because they are all, in the end, people from society. If the society is healthy, there are many correct views in it, everything will be fine everywhere. Therefore, everyone needs to start with themselves. This is how the world changes realistically. Yes, and as you become better, everything will appear more strength and perhaps later, if you want, you will be able to do something more significant, you will have clear, correct views and motivation and purpose, and you will have strength. Otherwise, this really won’t work.
don’t judge your parents strictly, please understand them, of course, they made and are making mistakes, everyone makes mistakes, but they always tried their best for you - that’s a lot in fact, forgive them and help on your part too, you won’t lose anything , you will gain a lot valuable qualities(it’s like real gold), which will later bring a lot of relief to you and will benefit others. external gold - because of it there are conflicts and wars. Inner gold never provokes conflicts and wars, on the contrary, than its more topics There are fewer problems everywhere.
All the best to you! Excuse me for criticizing you here, but I would just like this to help you better understand yourself and your life and not commit big mistakes, find more correct decisions that are good for yourself and useful to others, which you will not need to regret later. In fact, I respect you very much. And your dream is to change the world - good dream, just please be realistic. And be a good person. And a good daughter - this is very important. Not so as not to disappoint your parents (it’s more of a fear), out of love for your parents, out of a good attitude towards them. It’s just that your life is worth a lot and there’s a lot of meaning in it, it’s useful.
All the best to you!
Sergey, age: 34 / 05/30/2014
Who are you living for? If your parents don't support you, you can do it yourself. You can get money without even going to work. There are many ways. For example
create your own blog on YouTube. This will help you with both money and talent. And if you don’t want to do that, if you want to go to work and earn money there
then learn patience. Those who wait achieve a lot. I myself am only 13 years old. And I live in a small village. My dream is to become a famous actress. I have
I have relatives in Moscow and I’m going there this year. I earned my own ticket and so on. I really want to change this world for the better. Well, I'm done.
Stranger, age: 13/05/29/2016
In my opinion, people can do anything, but you are just talking nonsense. How many people have not become great because of these (impossible, etc.), how many talents have we lost?! She is looking for support, not lessons and teachings
which her parents give her.
“Mom, you’re bad” - 5 ways to react
Mothers, having heard such statements, most often get very scared and begin to swear. Some even punish the child for such words by putting him in a corner or depriving him of sweets and TV. This is a disaster for mom. In their opinion, the child has now done almost the worst thing in his life - he insulted his own mother!
But such statements from the lips of a teenager and a preschool child are filled with completely different content. And it’s unlikely that the baby puts into these words the very meaning that, according to his mother, is contained in them. But let's leave it adolescence school psychologists, and let’s pay attention to our preschooler.
In fact, there may be a dozen reasons that prompted the child to say this.
Perhaps now he is trying to tell you something very important, but he does not know or does not know how to do it. The only words, which he found to express his feelings is “Mom, you are bad!” Maybe he is asking for help or is in pain; he has another stage in development or a crisis of three, seven and beyond; he was ready to spend the evening with his dad, and then you came home from work early; just wondering how you would react to something like this; the child might have heard such a statement on the street or in kindergarten or did he want to do something important, and you interfered?
Remember one thing - such statements do not mean at all that the child does not love you and no longer needs you. He just said something the best he could, or repeated what he heard somewhere. In the first case, you need to understand his message, and in the second, you need to change yourself or smooth out the street consequences. Therefore, there are only two options on how not to react to such words - do not scold and do not punish.
Here are the ways how to react correctly, maybe several. First, exhale and, if you hear this for the first time, congratulate yourself on the fact that in your relationship new round development. If this is not the first time this happens, then think about why and why the child is saying this.
In both cases, try the following methods:
1. First, you can simply say - “okay, clear, I understand”, “okay, so be it” and keep doing your thing. If your child was testing your strength, trying a new word, or expecting some kind of violent reaction, he will be disappointed and, most likely, will not want to talk like that again. In general, peace of mind is one of the most correct options reacting not only to such, but also to other “unusual” statements.
2. Calmly ask in an interested (!) voice that does not break into hysterics: “Why am I bad?”, “Why do you think so?” It is very likely that the baby will answer your question himself, explaining the reason for his anger - I want candy, I want to play and I don’t want to sleep!
3. Help him understand himself: “Are you offended? Angry? You wanted to, but I made you put away the toys?”, “Did you want to be with dad?” In this case, try to explain to the child why he cannot continue to do something pleasant for him, but be sure to tell him when he can return to it or offer an alternative. For example: “We need to go to the store, otherwise we will all remain hungry, let me read to you or will you watch another cartoon in the evening when we get back?” “Daddy has to go on business, but when he gets back, he’ll play with you again.” Need I add that you should keep your promise?
4. Show empathy: “Yes, I understand you! I also told my mother that when I was a child,” “And I would be upset if they called me home from the street so early,” “I can imagine how angry you were.” It might seem like a small thing, but children also need sympathy and understanding.
5. Talk about love. It often helps if at the end of your statement you add, “I still love you.” Or say this instead of all of the above. Sometimes it works flawlessly.
Don't be alarmed by statements of this kind. Use them as a cue to think about what's going on. Now, while the child is small, it is much easier to build with him trusting relationship and fix something, rather than wait until he grows up and the scale of the “catastrophe” grows with him.
Hello. I don’t even know how to start. Every day I think that I really want to fall asleep and not wake up. I’m studying to become a veterinarian, the university is 1.5-2 hours by minibus from my home. Every day I get up at 6 in the morning, at 7 my stepfather takes me, and around 6 in the evening I return home by minibus with a transfer. They didn’t rent me an apartment or a place in a dorm, because they think that I’m not independent. I don’t have time to rest. I eat, and I sit down to study. Then I walk with my boyfriend for a couple of hours, then I come back, finish my homework and go to bed. I sleep 4-5 hours a day. On weekends I also can’t sleep longer, because if I sleep until lunch, my mother starts yelling that I’m sleeping again and doing nothing. She always screams if I don’t do household chores (my responsibilities include washing the floor, dishes, ironing, and maintaining order in the hallway, kitchen and my room). And when I try explain that I am very tired and cannot do household chores on weekdays, she says that I am just lazy and feel sorry for myself. And if I try to prove my point, they shut me up and shout. And I start to cry. I am very emotional person and I always cry when I’m offended. And my mother screams that I’m annoying her with my whining and that it would be better than whining to do something useful. I have a younger brother. He’s 8 and he’s a son from my second marriage. Sometimes it seems to me that they love him more, because if he is punished, then at most he is forbidden to play on the computer and go for a day. But I was punished until I was 15 years old, and I sat at home for weeks for, for example, getting a C in a quarter or not helping my mother .I was raised in such a way that now I simply cannot answer anything when they yell at me. And if I answer, I get a couple of name-calling in response and in the end they don’t talk to me. Now I’m 18 and I really miss my parents’ understanding. They they will never sit down and ask how you are doing. So only fleetingly, for the sake of decency they ask once a month. Everyone is at work. All they can do is shout. When my boyfriend returned from the army, no one even bothered to congratulate him on that I waited. No one cares. What irritates me most is that I depend on my parents, but I don’t want and can’t quarrel with them. My conscience is tormenting me. I’m quite plump, and when my mother and I start quarreling, she will definitely reproach me for that I do nothing but “eat and sleep” and says that I will be fat all my life because of this. She never admits that she is wrong, even if it is obvious. And when she tries to show it to her, I only hear another “shut up.” I understand that I am far from an ideal daughter, but why when parents demand respect (they constantly tell me that I don’t respect them), they don’t think about the fact that it should be mutual. I don’t even try to get understanding from my parents. It’s useless. There’s only one answer to everything - you’re a bad, lazy pig who even dares to object. lately I have a terrible headache, but I don’t even have time to go to the doctor. I hope that it’s some kind of meningitis and that I’ll die soon. I tried to commit suicide by injecting air into a vein, but I’m so afraid that I’m giving up trying. Help me.
Question for a psychologist:
Hello, my name is Alexandra, I’m 18 years old. I live with my parents and lately the relationship between us has been getting worse and worse. Let's start with the fact that I am an introvert by nature. I like to sit at home and watch movies, read books, draw, etc. etc. I have some really good girlfriends, I really appreciate and love them. But my parents always tell me that I have difficult character, they constantly accuse me of not communicating with relatives (cousins, second cousins, uncles, aunts). And I just don’t understand what I’m going to talk about with people I don’t know at all. It seems to me that my parents do not perceive my personal opinion at all. I graduated art school, but entered technical university. When I tried to explain to my father that I didn’t want to connect my profession with creativity, he was very surprised and until the very end told me to go to college. art university. Once (when we were arguing about admission) he said that I was too small to have own opinion. It really hurt me then. I feel like I'm being treated like a "fetch this, do that" dog (No, I don't mind doing any housework). I always HAVE to do something, but as soon as I want to express my opinion, they immediately shut me up, shout that I’m ungrateful and bad daughter. Soon after this, I began to become increasingly silent and withdrawn into myself. So my mother again yelled at me because I didn’t talk to her, again I had bad character, again I'm a bad, worthless daughter. Yes, sometimes I can be rude, but I can't help it. But she is far from ideal. When I was little, she got drunk several times and tried to jump out of the window (due to the fact that her father was cheating on her) right in front of my eyes. One time, when I once again pulled her away from the window, she offered to jump out with her. Since then, I probably feel some disgust when my mother drinks a little. I don't say anything bad to her. It’s just that when she comes into my room and asks something, I answer briefly and without much tenderness. In fact, my mother is very cheerful man, sometimes even too cheerful. When I asked her about admission and about the argument with my father, she constantly laughed it off. Only once did she seriously express her opinion about admission. She said, “Go where you want, you won’t be able to get in for free.” In the end, I got in for free. In general, some kind of disputes constantly occur in our family. And to the depths of my soul I don’t understand how it is possible to achieve understanding in a family when the father leads double life. He has illegitimate son. My son is seven or eight years old. And now every time he comes home, kisses his mother, kisses me, I feel that all this is not real. I don’t understand what my parents want from me, because my father has another child who probably has a wonderful, flexible character. And my mother said that every year I was getting worse and worse. She said she didn't feel like she had a daughter. It even got to the point that she offered to buy me a separate apartment and move. Maybe it’s really worth moving out from my parents if I’m such a burden to them?
Psychologist Robert Fidaevich Akhmetov answers the question.
Hello, Alexandra!
If the question is: should I move out? That more arguments- “for”, based on your story. If independence is not scary, then this good way start living by taking responsibility for your life. And this, in turn, makes it possible to feel free and confident.
Besides, it's not clear what else you want. If you want to be “good” for your parents, with the attitude that you described, then it’s hardly worth it. Because, firstly, they are unlikely to appreciate your efforts today, and secondly, it will only exhaust you, Alexander, and you will not live your own life.
Think, important question for you now - how you want to live. Any person you meet in the course of life can teach you something useful. Even negative example may be useful. Like something not worth trying. It also gives a reason to think about your own choices and decisions. And about what kind of relationships you want in your own family.
Maybe I'm wrong, I got the feeling that you, Alexandra, are suppressing negative emotions towards parents - anger, for example. I do not urge you to show aggression towards them! No way! :) But, if it exists, it is worth discussing it with a psychologist. And other questions that you did not formulate as questions - how to relate to your father and mother, how to learn to defend your interests, your psychological boundaries (including learning to say “no” and not feel guilty about it), and others .
How often, in a fit of anger, parents say words to their children that penetrate deeply into the consciousness, hurt, leaving a mark there. for many years. As a result of the wrong actions of adults, the child becomes aggressive, his self-esteem decreases, and his parents cease to be an authority for him. How to avoid this? Let's look at 7 mistakes that adults make during quarrels with their children, and then try not to repeat them.
1. Focus on personality, not actions
When a child does something bad, parents often tell him that he is bad, saying phrases like “I don’t need such a child!” or “You’re a terrible boy!” With such statements, mothers and fathers hurt their children. It is important that the baby understands that it is not he himself who is bad, but the action he committed that causes disapproval of his parents.
2. Shifting the blame onto children
Sometimes, during times of strong irritation, parents begin to scold their children for something for which, in fact, they are not to blame. For example, a mother forgot to remove a plate or cup from the table, and the baby, running past, touched it, it fell and broke. Or another case - dad allowed me to pet the neighbor’s dog, but it bit the baby. And now the father scolds the child - don’t you know that a dog can bite? Who is to blame in this case? Is it a child? Why should he be scolded or punished? By shifting the blame from themselves to their children, parents can achieve only one thing - over time, their child will begin to do the same, he will not admit his mistakes. I think everyone will remember a situation when we need to scold ourselves, but we scold a child.
3. Demonstrating your superiority
Adults often demonstrate their own superiority to their children, which causes them to feel inferiority and humiliation, annoyance and resentment. This can be explained by the example of a situation where one of the parents, having taken a toy from a child, puts it on the closet or somewhere where the child cannot get it himself. What happens to the child at this time? He is in despair, he feels his own powerlessness and deep resentment, he begins to feel. You need to help the baby cope with his feelings, and the parents make the situation even worse by leaving him alone to think about his behavior.
4. Punishment by deprivation of material benefits
Do you use this technique - having promised to buy your son or daughter a toy, you take your words back if the child behaves badly? This is what most parents do to achieve obedience from their children. But is this right? Undoubtedly this method helps to quickly put children in their place, but what motivates them to obey - do they think about the feelings of their father and mother? No, in this situation the child is only concerned with his own benefits. When he gets older, he will understand that it is better to please his parents, so as not to be deprived material goods, and not out of respect for elders. At the same time, the teenager will accumulate his own experiences, resentment, anger and irritation within himself. Never punish children by depriving them of material things, but teach them to respect your feelings, explain why they need to do this and not otherwise.
5. Aggression, rudeness, physical punishment
If, during a quarrel with a child, a mother or father loses control over themselves, makes rude statements, shouts, or uses force to educate them, then the children adopt their way of acting. They learn from their parents that critical situation loss of control over oneself is the norm, that the one who is stronger, who screams louder and expresses himself more rudely is right. While the child is small, it seems that such educational measures work, but in fact the baby is simply afraid of the parents’ reaction, so he behaves well. Little children cannot fight back against adults - hit, shout, but when they grow up, we should expect a similar response from them.
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6. Demand an apology when parents don’t do it themselves.
To teach children something, you need to lead them by example. Parents will not be able to instill in their child the habit of asking for forgiveness for their actions if they themselves do not do this. Situations happen to everyone when, under the influence of fatigue or irritation, we can say a bunch of hurtful words to children. After a quarrel, we regret what we said, so why not tell our daughter or son: “Forgive me, I told you offensive words, I don’t really think that way about you.” What will happen next? Usually the kids also apologize for bad behavior hugging parents. Ask for forgiveness even when both parties are to blame, do it first, so that the children take an example from you.
To be honest, sometimes I myself lose my temper and say hurtful words to my daughter, which I later regret. But I always try to apologize for them. I tell my daughter: “Please forgive me. I lost my temper and told you something completely different from what I really think.” The daughter usually apologizes at this moment too: “Mommy, forgive me too. I was so capricious and behaved very badly. It was unpleasant for you. Will you excuse me?” And we usually hug.
In situations where we were both good, I usually apologize first. And at the same time, I don’t blame my daughter, I don’t say that she was wrong either. The daughter herself admits her part of the guilt in such situations and asks for forgiveness.
7. Use of humiliating punishments
When a child is guilty, he is punished, but this must be done correctly. When applying educational measures, use the rule - it is better to deprive a child of something good than to do something bad to him. For example, it is better to refuse to let your child watch cartoons or read at night than to raise his voice and spank him. Remember - you cannot humiliate a child by punishing him, so never scold children in the presence of strangers. If you are in a crowded place and your baby is behaving extremely badly, either postpone parenting until later, or step aside and talk to him quietly.
You can make a lot of mistakes in raising children, because we are all human. Great for helping reduce the amount conflict situations A simple rule: before you say anything to your children, say it to yourself. When the situation gets tense, replay this phrase in your head, it will help you stop. right moment, which means avoiding mistakes. By applying this rule, you will notice that children will begin to show respect, their self-esteem will increase, and they will begin to control their words.
“School for Young Fathers”: “How to quarrel with a child correctly”
Basic mistakes in raising children
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