Psycho - emotional portraits on real people, compiled by specialists using full name only, regardless of distance. Indicatingproblematic issues, fears, correction mechanisms.

To create such portraits, no mandatory contact (conversation) with a person is required. No tests are used (not to be confused with extrasensory perception, etc.).

Brief psychological portrait to the owner of the company

(Kazakhstan, Almaty)

Peculiarity this person lies in the fact that his view of others depends on the amount of benefit he extracts from others in the future. Based on this, relationships are being built. If the prospect of benefit is solid, then this person will accept all the conditions for getting what he has planned. In all other cases, the possibility of interaction will depend on the level personal responsibility. This person is perceived by those around him with some rejection due to the feeling of manipulation that arises in them and, also, due to the dual perception of this person. The inner world of this person is simple, because the existing abilities are not extraordinary. The desire for self-improvement is mediocre. Avoids the difficulties associated with the need to take responsibility. He does not accept the truth that is contrary to his own opinion about himself.

Psycho - emotional portrait of the director of an advertising company in Novosibirsk.

Smart. Educated within the required program. In general, he knows everything that is in demand now. He treats new things with distrust, but takes pleasure in methods that can smear a person and then put them back together at his own discretion. Outwardly, he behaves in a businesslike, neutral manner. Preference is given to psychologists who adhere to her point of view: “Do as I said and get a phenomenal result. Give me your laurels, and I’ll pinch off a piece of yours.”Myself". Can't stand young, smart, attractive,self-confident esp. Especially the last one. The confidence of another person is infringed upon and she immediately takes a defensive stance, that is, she begins to test her professional suitability (and insinuatingly, unnoticeably).

She has some kind of symbiosis of techniques:

1. shows his disposition towards a person

2. gives him the opportunity to become bolder and stand on the same level with her, to feel confident in this state

3. begins to set tiny, almost invisible logic puzzles according to the activities that a person conducts. The goal is to confuse by the end of the conversation. The person is still confident, but begins to “fidget,” vaguely feeling in the back of his mind a slight, but not obvious, unformed catch.

4. And here he should realize that the catch is still real, and not pretend to be super confident, recognize its significance... But he brushes it all aside, because everything was so good. And he got caught. This pisses her off. This is her moment of triumph. She begins to act according to her “smear and assemble at her own discretion” method. She always succeeds in this. But such people are not valuable to her. Garbage.

Here you have to be smart. Something between confidence and respect, readiness to listen, analyze, accept advice, but not servile and not swallow with joyful slurping everything that is shoved. Copy her main attitude - neutrality. No matter what emotional message or coloring she speaks with, she is essentially neutral. (but not indifferent.) If she sees opposite her -Yourself according to the mood, then it’s “Oh! soul mate.” But under no circumstances should you compete in intelligence, professionalism, etc.

You need to speak measuredly, not mournfully,The word calm doesn't fit here. To feel that your business is dear to you, that you care for your profession with all your heart, that it is valuable and significant. And the lady sitting in front of you - (full name) is worth four times, because she is an entrance ticket for you. But there should be no flattery, but only harsh reality that you really think so. A inner mood neutral. There is such a word - Dignity. She loves this word very much. (full name) and Dignity words are synonyms. Speech should be clear, specific, logically structured, so that it does not strain or wrinkle the forehead. Yes, and also, she must feel that you are ready to recognize her as your guru at the wave of her hand.

Psychological portrait. Igor

Not smart, but smart. There is no intuition. Doesn't like difficulties, tries to choose the easy path. Stingy. Loves money. Closed He almost always doubts everything. She is afraid of seeming “clumsy”, so she maintains neutrality.

Attitude towards women: considers them cunning, that they only need well-being. I like standard women and preferably without extravagant requests. He doesn’t like it when a woman leads him in bed, because he immediately feels humiliated, because they couldn’t feel, appreciate and admire all his splendor. He can be with such a woman for a long time in exceptional cases when he owes her.

Society perceives him as soft, pliable and moderately kind, knowledgeable, generous, etc. He is all “in moderation”, that is, all his qualities are in moderation. He is, let's say, neutral. People can’t say anything specific about him except: “well, it seems like nothing...”.

He is afraid of harsh formulations, questions, topics, decisions, because he is afraid of being branded as a “mattress”. If you have to make a tough decision, then it is better through someone else, with other hands. But, if he really can’t get away with it, then he won’t talk (show toughness), he will inform him and redirect him to another person, who will explain his decision and carry out the appropriate procedures.

In personal relationshipshis cruelty manifests itself in the form of door slamming and dissatisfaction - refusing something. May sometimes squeal.

Although, due to the presence of “moderate” merits, he can “fall” a person so much in love with himself that for some time he can turn into almost a “MACHO”, almost a tyrant, almost a dictator.

Main fears:

1. Tough choices with acceptance of responsibility;

2. Counter cruelty, hyperconfidence, arrogance (that is, if he encounters it);

3. Requirements for rapid adoption are vital important decisions;

4. Reveal yourself and be ridiculed.

Desires:

how to take the position of a small, stupid woman, to whom everything flows into her hands and everything lies at her feet (feelings, money, devotion, opportunities, etc.). And so that there are no hassles, responsibility, or risk of parting with existing values.

To date:

Job. There are some aspects that are unclear to him that threaten him with financial problems. The presence of seven people who are not interested in his existence on the field professional activity. The situation is still light, tense.

Family. "Neighborhood" existence. Reluctance to cultivate, build, understand, change anything. I'm tired of everything. Empty.

Health.

1. Reproductive system (prostate),

2. immune system,

3. Urinary system (kidneys, ureters), Digestive system

(12 p.k., pancreas,),

4. Spleen,

5. Joints.

Feels general malaise, weakness, discontent. Discomfort in the gastrointestinal tract. Suspicions of problems in the sexual sphere, but drives away this thought.

Striving for safety!!!

There is no clear definition of WHO HE IS, WHAT HE IS, his value and real status as a MAN!!!

Psycho-emotional portrait of a major political figure.

The events taking place in the life of this person developed in such a way that his personality as an essence was finally formed by the age of 17 and remained unchanged to this day. His ability to see the move further developments even at the stage of the emergence of the situation, it gave him the opportunity not to make mistakes in choosing goals and paths to follow. Regardless of that easy Whether the paths and goals were difficult, they were always true, unmistakable. He always arrived at the destination that was most comfortable. He has a rather extraordinary mindset. Despite the extensive database of all kinds theoretical knowledge does not rely on them when making decisions. First, the situation is assessed for feasibility. Then what will be the benefit of this and to whom. If the benefit is seen, then the associated costs do not matter. The main thing is the end result. And if this result adds significance to his authority, then everything else simply does not matter.

He has his own worldview, which can be described as follows: “Everything that happens makes no sense until a problem arises,” that is, there is no point in doing something without an urgent need. Life credo: “Love yourself, the rest will follow.”

The person is mostly caring and not evil, but vindictive. He is not capable of meanness, but if the opportunity to take revenge presents itself, he will not miss such an opportunity. Revenge will not be limited to certain specific actions, it will be limited to “noise effects” and possibly actions that will not cause damage. He has fairly strong willpower and an ineradicable desire to lead and lead.

All of this person’s virtues, qualities and character traits, abilities, etc. can be rated five with a minus on a five-point scale.

Fears unusual situations because due to the liveliness of his temperament, he cannot always react calmly. He is afraid of male representatives who combine mediocrity, encyclopedic knowledge and lack of ability to analyze, because he considers them uncontrollable and incapable of hearing the main thing.

Afraid of losing own authority and status of the owner in the eyes of people whose opinion he values ​​very much. He does not respect people who are not able to thank well and be responsible for their words. Available to people who can surprise him with their unconventional and smart ideas and worldview, decency, generosity in all aspects.

In everything that is directed at him: in feelings, relationships, compliments, etc. likes it to be a little more than it should be, but not too much.

We govern through our own authority. He doesn’t like it when people “stick out” in front of him and put their own merits above his merits. He does not accept criticism of his actions. Conversation as equals rejects. You can’t scold him - he becomes isolated. To get him to “agree” to a constructive conversation in which he can calmly accept criticism and admit mistakes, analyze, and as a result do much better than expected of him, it is necessary: ​​to behave friendly, but not friendly; exclude wordsmust Andneed to . The conversation should be structured approximately along the following lines: “Because of such and such a problem, we cannot achieve such and such. It is necessary to do this and that. And this is within your power. I hope that you will do everything possible and impossible for this. " Next, you just need to praise him, focusing on his authority. This person can do a lot for those who believe in him, recognize his authority, the results of his work and see him as a master. It can teach perseverance in achieving a goal, love for oneself and one’s work, devotion to friends and those who believe, and the fact that own opinion about yourself should be equal to the opinion of others.

Psycho-emotional portrait. Andrey.

Sadistic tendencies(afraid of them).

Loves to reduce a person's dignity to the level of basic instincts: to sleep, drink, eat, etc.

Inclined to physical violence. Before Use physical strength the enemy must be demoralized or immobilized.

He prefers moral destruction to physical destruction because he is afraid of the consequences and is very afraid of responsibility.

He has good psychological pressure skills (brought them to perfection in prison).

Scheme:

• The speech should be replete with such words as: “you deserve more..”, “you don’t understand what they are doing to you”, “they don’t have the right to dictate or point out to you”...The main goal is to convince a person that he is underestimated and unfairly offended.

• Reach mutual understanding with a desperate person. Convince him that he can trust you completely. The following semantic formulations are used: “nothing will happen to you”, “let me help you”, “as long as we are together (next to you) everything will be fine.”

• A person must firmly believe that you are the only source of solutions to his problems. Used the following phrases: “if you want, I can help solve all your problems,” “I am not indifferent to your fate,” “I know what you need.”

All phrases should be constructed in such a way that a person has a clear conviction that he himself makes a decision, without the slightest pressure, without coercion. That is, a person is absolutely free in his choice. But he chooses only you, the only hope in you. A person must see that he is needed and you are the only one who needs him.

80% of women and 50% of men fall for this: resentful or abandoned wives and men in despair over women and prone to drunkenness.

Attitude towards women: “Any woman can be made into a litter.” Women are afraid of being alone, and he firmly believes that he will always be in demand. He is terribly afraid of almost all women. Before approaching a woman, look for her weak point, otherwise the technique will not work.

He chooses male friends from the morally degraded strata: cowardly, pathetic, insulted, without clear guidelines and principles in life, pliable, weak-willed, capable of nasty things and low acts towards women.

Attitude to an unfamiliar environment always aggressive. In order not to get into trouble, he initially behaves ingratiatingly. First of all, his own safety is important to him. In this regard, he has one rule: “Either they are afraid of you and what is behind you (if there is one), or you ignore them.”

• Liabilities – excluded

• Responsibilities – excluded
• Responsibility - Visibility
• Respect is visibility
• Feelings - from case to case
• Plans for the future - only for yourself
• Taking into account a woman’s plans and desires is strictly prohibited
• His plans and desires come first, by any means at the expense of a woman, by cultivating her dependence on him.
• The main task is to settle down.
• Relationships with real men are excluded

Externally: kind, pliable, moderately responsive, good listener. He seems like a fairly reliable person.

Really: hyper-greedy, Tishka, very cowardly,

missing: honor, nobility, life principles;

opportunist, closed (no one managed to open it).

Attitude towards parents: anger for the restriction of freedom and the imposition of ideas, for the fact that they were not interested in what he really wanted.

Relation to mother: disrespect, because she is weak-willed.

Relationship to father: hatred, because he crushed him with his successes and authority.

Parents' attitude towards him: They believed that he was an unworthy son of his parents. Tested before him strange fear, because they couldn’t see the real thing. They avoided him. By the age of 19, his parents’ love for him had grown into rejection. He deprived them of their usual peace of mind for themselves and mutual understanding (between spouses). The spouses began to move away from each other and their relationship turned into a fiction.

After the death of his parents, he experienced joy.

Relatives' attitude towards him: “It’s easier to give than to refuse.” He uses these stupidly, portraying someone offended by fate, crushed by grief, etc.

Opening and management technique.

Know that he can stab you in the back. You can't trust him. He does not enjoy authority. He doesn't have any solid cover, just scum. People who know their worth do not make acquaintance with him. Nobody needs him. Nobody will stand up for him. He has absolutely no serious support or trustees. He's cunning. However, if with him to speak firmly is a coward, and immediately begins to pretend to be “poor,” evoking sympathy for himself. If it doesn’t work out, he turns to aggression. If aggression does not produce results, he moves on to trying to intimidate. Then assault, then humiliation (this is only if the enemy is clearly inferior to him in physical strength).

You need to talk to him evenly, without ridicule, firmly, do not switch to his wavelength, do not respond to his jokes.

Toto control it, it is enough to use the words: “I want to understand”, “I can help”, “I know how to find a way out”; and do what he cannot repeat.

The purpose of his coming: show Olya the impossibility of changing his condition. To prove to her our inability to influence, change, see. Rise before her and gain complete power over her. Show that he can scare us.

Drive purpose: Olya wants to see who wins, who she can listen to.

He has no desire to “not drink.” There is a desire to find out how you can right moment stop, control yourself in order to have confidence, strength, high self-esteem.

4 years – physical action, which entailed psychological trauma. Father: cruel punishment, a blow to the masculine.

8 years – the first sensual relationship with the opposite sex. The experience was negative, I felt my insignificance. Relationships with boys of the same age: he was always subordinate.

12 years old – psychological violence. Resentment on the verge of humiliation towards a peer. He became cowardly and realized his disadvantage, uselessness, inferiority. His father ingrained this in him. Hatred arose. The solution is to adapt.

16-18 years old. Belief in one's own insignificance. People, in his opinion, are not worthy of respect. The rule has been formed: “Choose a victim. Achieve it mentally. Submit. But only one." To be content with the role of a “scapegoat” among the strong, eating “leftovers” and cherishing the dream of being left alone with one of the strong to realize oneself according to one’s own invented method.

25 years old. ZK. Invaluable experience. Implementation of your plans, development of methodology. The technique works. Belief in one's own invulnerability.

28 years old. Psychological violence against women. The belief that he is a MACHO.

32 years old. The taste for quiet physical violence in every sense has intensified.

He considers himself almost a god over the destinies of people. He just acts very selectively, like a super spy, to be sure. Socially dangerous. Because no one can understand him. He is not a man in camouflage. He's camouflage under camouflage.

Psychological portrait of a deputy.

Outwardly it exudes sweetness and cloying. He is endearing to himself because it is not difficult for him to tune in to the wave of his interlocutor, i.e. he takes on the role of a person and tries to analyze what he would do himself (full name) in this condition. For example, in front of him is a depressed man. He enters into the role of a person - emotional state on at the moment(not to be confused with a person’s role in life. He also does this, but cannot even approximately draw the course of events. But he studies this intensively. He needs this, because knowing at least approximately the further behavior of a person, one can consider himself a little or a prophet - to protect yourself from the danger associated with this person, to adjust your behavior and the course of events).

But let's get back to that what he can already do at the moment- to enter into the role of a person, but this is not small (the person is vulnerable at this moment), at this moment he (full name) can crush the person under himself, slightly opening the door for him with a sign “exit from the current situation.”

Causes the following reaction in almost everyone: relatively safe, but uncomfortable (not uncomfortable). Uncomfort is caused by a discrepancy between words, facial expressions, appearance, and intentions in life. All this is separate and the interlocutor does not understand where to look for him - the real (full name), in words, in facial expressions, in appearance or in intention.

One intention:“If someone would give it all at once, or he would give it to someone 5-6 times, but for it all at once.” Since this “gave” is a problem (no charisma, boring, “doesn’t get in”), then you have to find well-being social work(the choice is wrong, but possible), only here his policy is initially incorrect: the promises set the teeth on edge, they are motley. It’s like hastily copied out material for an exam, but he doesn’t know the meaning, which means he won’t pass the exam. Convinced myself that goes the right, fast and easy way. The main thing is to get into it quickly. He will think about “not being shaken out” when he pushes in. Narrow-minded, short-sighted.

Talk to him only when you meet him. The tone is absolutely neutral, cool. But (full name) must feel that you, like him, can “give” or be “given” to achieve your goal. In short, they are bullies on this issue, soul mates so to speak, and you’re not the least bit ashamed.

Brief psychological portrait ondirector of a Moscow bank.

He relies on his education, reads a lot, and is always studying. Hyper-persistent in an effort not to let his business wither. Doesn't like to pay. Life principle:" you can get almost everything for free ". Recognizes power-hungry people, people of action - whose words do not diverge from their actions and, most importantly, from their thinking. He has a nose for weakness. Those. if a person speaks the point, is responsible for his words, but in his thoughts he is not sure of what he says and does - he senses it immediately - he will be laughed at. For him, people are trash. But there are diamonds in the trash. According to him, diamonds are rare. In general, he is junk, but with these qualities (see above) he earned a good reputation and price. For him, only human significance can be authority. Not showy, but really real, really.

Psychological portrait of a psychologist. Marina

Professional qualities .