We live according to social laws, without them our life would turn into chaos. But do we ourselves have our internal laws, some kind of life credo that guides us in life? Surely there are, but these principles are not clearly defined and formulated. We think little about what guides us when we make our choices, when we decide what to do.
- Having formulated our life credo, we will be able to clearly define our principles and life values, that is basis own life.
- Let's get a kind of compass that will give us the opportunity to see where we want to go (our goals) and how to get there, that is focus own life.
- Let’s find support in life’s troubles, that is, the necessary strength.
We do not always remember our values, our plans, falling into the trap of things that are not important to us, are not subordinate to our goals and true desires, imposed on us by other people or circumstances.
But by seeing our landmark clearly in front of us, we will be able to weed out those things that run counter to our goals and true desires.
I believe that a person should have some kind of Code in which he will write down not only his life principles, but also your successes, accumulated experience, as well as your expectations from life.
By checking with it every day, we can act as a whole person, accept right decisions without reacting to other people's emotions or unfavorable circumstances.
How to create your life credo?
Life credo is:
- what you want to be (character)
- what you want to do (achievements and contributions)
- your principles and values (the basis of actions and life in general)
Think through each of the three points, describe them in detail. Let everything be simple and extremely honest.
These provisions will become the standard and basis for making important and everyday decisions. They will give you strength and the ability to withstand life’s adversities, changes and shocks. This is the core, your core, which is not subject to change.
Often we take on some boring task that will not bring us any joy or benefit, so when you are approached with similar requests and proposals, look through your list of goals and values and ask yourself whether this task will move you towards your goals .
Principles do not always help in life. By strictly following them, we miss new opportunities, become less flexible, they interfere with communication and relationships. But they are necessary, because it is on them that we can rely in Hard time, in times of doubt. After checking them, you will have to make a difficult choice.
“Principles are like a hard bed that is uncomfortable to sleep on, but which forms a good spine.”
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Life credo, examples.
For men:
No compromise on integrity. Remember the people who are nearby. Make a judgment only after hearing both sides. Listen to the advice of others. Intercede for those who are absent. Be sincere and at the same time decisive. Develop a new ability every year. Plan for tomorrow today. While waiting, don't sit idle. Maintain a positive attitude within yourself. Maintain a sense of humor. Maintain order in personal life and at work. Do not be afraid of mistakes - only be afraid of the lack of a creative, constructive and corrective response to these mistakes. Contribute to the success of subordinates. Listen twice as long as you speak. Concentrate all your abilities and efforts on the task at hand, without worrying about the next one or promotion.
For women:
I will try to maintain a balance between my family and work responsibilities, as both are important to me. My home will be a place where I and my family, our friends and guests will find joy, comfort, peace and happiness. I will not go too far in caring about cleanliness and order, since the house, in addition to this, should be lived-in and comfortable. I will be wise in choosing what we eat, read, watch and do at home. In particular, I want to teach my children to love, learn and laugh, as well as work and develop their talents. I will always try to keep myself from harmful and destructive habits. I will develop skills that will free me from old labels and limitations and expand my capabilities. My money will serve me, not dominate me. I will strive to achieve financial independence. I will subordinate my desires to my needs and capabilities. I will spend less than I earn and regularly save part of my income.
A few quotes that can form the basis of a life credo:
Push your boundaries! I always do what I don't know how to do in order to learn it. (Pablo Picasso)
Inspiration exists, but it must come while working. (Pablo Picasso)
Anyone who can be happy alone is a real person. If your happiness depends on others, then you are a slave, you are not free. (Osho)
The most important thing is to put things in order in your soul. We follow three “don’ts”: don’t complain, don’t blame, don’t make excuses. (Bernard Show)
Most people are only as happy as they decide to be. (A. Lincoln)
People who do not have have very few virtues. (A. Lincoln)
Those who wait passively eventually receive what they expected, but only what was left after those who acted energetically. (A. Lincoln)
I don't have enough good memory to lie. (A. Lincoln)
If you want to succeed, continue to believe in yourself even when no one believes in you anymore. (K. Marx)
Look at the life principles that I try to follow in life. Quotes about can also form the basis of life principles and your personal credo.
How to write a life credo for a resume
Some of what guides you in life and work.
To create a life credo for your resume, you need to start from the specifics of the job you are applying for, but there are also universal qualities that are welcomed by employers. These are, as a rule: energy, initiative, efficiency, stress resistance, ability to analyze, creativity, ability to work in a team, communicate with people.
Which are valued is easy to find out from job responsibilities and draw up your life credo based on the required skills and personal qualities. For doctors, teachers, lawyers, a life credo can be written based on ethical codes these professions.
For example, to work as a copywriter you need the following skills:
The ability to quickly immerse yourself in an unfamiliar topic, search for the necessary literature, work with various sources, analytical mind, curiosity, ability to approach problem solving in an unconventional, creative way, competent oral and written language, the ability to express one’s thoughts figuratively and intelligibly, the ability to work in a team, and in any environment and under time pressure. Skills interpersonal communication, the ability to persuade, prove, and competently defend one’s point of view.
Based on this, a life credo for work might look like this:
The principles that guide my work are: “Learn something new every day, be open to gaining new knowledge and experience, so that life is filled with meaning. Think creatively, since creativity makes the result of any activity unique, and makes you feel happy from the process itself. Avoid stereotypes, because they limit opportunities, and the results of work become uniform and are of little value to others.
I analyze everything that I learn, as this gives me the opportunity to find something truly valuable in the abundance of information. With the help of analysis I can decide effectively and quickly complex tasks, draw correct logical conclusions, see the problem with different points vision and find the optimal solution. Always weighing the pros and cons, I try to persuade readers to listen to my point of view without imposing it. I strive for literacy as a courtesy to readers, as well as for thoroughness and scrupulousness in the selection and verification of facts. I try to remain calm in any situation, because emotions and impulses interfere with making an important decision, acting rationally, and deprive me of strength and self-confidence. But I also see the benefits of stressful situations that contribute to mobilization internal resources and creative breakthrough, help to find new, unexpected ideas.”
Life credo for business, universal principles:
Obligation: Promised - fulfilled.
Organized: I maintain order in my affairs and plans.
Constructiveness: Without emotions for mutual benefit (win-win).
Stress resistance: Be resilient and be able to repel an attack.
Impartiality: Being on the side of truth.
Resourcefulness: I look for opportunities in any situation.
Flexibility: I am able to adequately respond to the variability of the world.
Eloquence: Express my thoughts clearly and concisely.
Calculation: I calculate options, assess risks, act.
Cooperativeness: I create trust in relationships with colleagues and partners.
Initiative: If you notice an opportunity, take the first step.
Hard work: The basis of success, prosperity, self-confidence, patience.
Since we live in a society in rule of law, which means each of us has to comply certain rules, norms and law, whether we like it or not. But in addition to mandatory and generally accepted practices, most people have their own life principles that they adhere to. Many people don’t even think deeply about this, because these beliefs often developed with early childhood, vaccinated by parents, relatives, and teachers.
In order to confidently move towards your goal and not waste your time on trifles, psychologists recommend clearly defining your personal motto, or life credo.
What will this give you specifically?
Let's imagine that life is some kind of plant. For it to germinate and grow, you need good, fertile soil, sun and water.
- The life principles and values that you define and that are important to you personally will give you the basis for success.
- secondly, having formulated his life credo, a person will see and determine for himself the path to achieve his goal. Those. The sprouted seed of our plant moves towards the light and sun, grows and produces its first leaves.
- and finally, the person gains strength. The life motto invigorates, adds energy, inspires, motivates. Compare it to water like this necessary for the plant so that it bears fruit.
It often happens that a person gets involved in routine, monotonous chores and worries, spinning like a squirrel in a wheel along the home-work-home route, completely forgetting about his dreams, goals and values. And if we define a life credo, this will motivate us to action, help us concentrate on the goal and sift out the wheat from the chaff.
It is important not only to formulate a life credo in your head, but also to transfer it to paper, where your life motto will be written down, your values, goals, expectations, and your steps towards your cherished goal will be defined. Every time you don’t know what to do, in which direction to move, refer to these notes and analyze whether you are going the right way, whether you are taking roundabout paths, or whether nothing is stopping you.
To create a personal motto or life credo you need:
- Honestly and in detail describe how you want to see yourself (externally and internally, describe your character).
- Write down your goals, what you want to achieve, what to do.
- Determine life principles and values. Don't give up on them, no matter how hard it may be. It will give you strength when accepting important decisions, do the right thing, but difficult choice. You should have no doubt: this is exactly how it is and no other way.
Examples of life motto (credo)
- Be able to say “no” so that others do not use you for selfish purposes.
- Do not throw words to the wind, bring everything to the end - so as not to be branded as an unreliable and irresponsible person.
- Do not respond to rudeness with rudeness, do not splash out bad emotions on others – i.e. be stress-resistant.
- Keeping everything in order is discipline.
- Don’t sit idle, learn new skills, gain new knowledge – i.e. develop in different areas.
We are sure that the motto will help you in life and will become a guarantee of victories.
Bill Gates is 63. He now believes he is a completely different person than he was when he founded Microsoft to “put a computer on every desk in every home.”
To assess the quality of his life, Gates asks himself various questions. They are different from those he asked himself in his youth.
For 25-year-old Gates, only one question mattered to gauge his business success: Are Microsoft products the embodiment of the dream of personal computers?
New questions
On his personal blog, Gates Notes, the businessman said that he still continues to evaluate his work at the end of each year, but the questions have changed. Here's what he's asking himself now:
Did I spend enough time with my family?
Did you learn a lot of new things?
Have you made new friends and been able to become even closer with old friends?
Gates is ready to admit that at the age of 25 these questions would only make him laugh. But at 63, they acquired special significance for him.
Bill Gates' friend Warren Buffett suggested another question to him that would allow him to evaluate the measure of success:
Do the people I care about give me love in return?
Assessing the quality of your life
Of course, when assessing personal success, it is necessary to look at our own career achievements, at the level of income we receive... But how many of us sit down and think about the quality of our lives?
For Bill Gates and Warren Buffett, the main measure of quality of life is the quantity and quality of the actions we perform that can have an impact. positive influence on other people's lives. And since you and I are not billionaires, we can start with our members own families, friends, colleagues and members of local communities. What are we doing to do better life people within our sphere of influence?
Warren Buffett is familiar with this principle. Here's his definition of success, which he once told a group of students: Institute of Technology Georgia:
“When you get to my age, you will truly measure your success by the number of people you love and who also love you. This is the real test of how you have lived your life. Love can't be bought, and that's what it is the main problem. The only way receive love - be responsive, kind, caring and loving. The more love you give, the more you receive."
As the third richest person on the planet, Buffett lives by promoting and regularly engaging in philanthropy. For example, it follows a principle known as "Promised Contributions", in which richest people peace are sacrificed most of their fortune for charitable purposes.
Bill Gates and his wife founded the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation to “give love.” He donated billions of dollars to improve the quality of healthcare, fight various diseases, fighting poverty and expanding educational opportunities.
Publisher: Gaya - March 06, 2019
“Everything you resist makes you weaker. Whatever resonates with your soul makes you stronger.” — Wayne Dyer.
One of the very important life lessons that each of us should learn: we need to give up as soon as possible the desire to constantly complain about what we don’t like in the world around us, and about other people who do not behave in the way we consider acceptable.
We also need to stop constantly complaining about the current life situation or past events. It is worth realizing that sometimes our mind begins to distort reality. And it depends only on us what shade we will give to everything that we see around us - negative or positive.
And most importantly, we need to understand that we should not always believe in everything we think.
You should learn to always keep, at least at arm's length, everything that makes you unhappy and everything that you don't really like. And bring closer to yourself what you really like. When you do this, you will soon realize that by doing so you have begun to attract many wonderful things, events and people into your life.
Simply by learning to switch your attention from the negative, or, say, from what you don’t like at all, or what you don’t want at all, to something positive. For what you really like, for what you really want. You will learn a lot about what really leads to happiness and how to achieve it for you.
In fact, our thoughts are simply incredibly powerful, they have enormous power of creation and creativity. Therefore, if we can direct our mind and way of thinking to work only and exclusively for our benefit, we will certainly be able to find happiness in the very near future.
Now read, understand and experience what the incredible and wonderful James Allen once said:
“When you think, you let your mind travel, and when you love, you attract something to you. Today you are where your thoughts took you, and tomorrow you will be where they take you.”
THOUGHTS ARE POWER – CHOOSE THEM WISELY
“Tell me about your worries, and I’ll tell you about mine,
Don't forget to make us coffee - this won't be a short moment,
I came here for you, but you came here for me,
And what are our worries? There is a restless glare on the water.
Complain to me about everything - about doubts, fears and pain.
I will listen to everything to the end - that’s my role...
And when you finish and listen to my life's riddles,
You will probably realize that you are, in fact, completely fine.
Remember, my friend, that I took away your pain,
I wrote down your complaints for a reason
Into a huge book - so that you can start all over again.
And when pain suddenly squeezes your chest again,
Take the book of your complaints off the shelf and read it again.
You will realize that your complaints are complete nonsense." ~ Anita Brown
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But you will not find death and life there, since such specific products are distributed by the head office located elsewhere.
Visitors to the store are told the cost of fulfilling their wishes. But despite having dreams, some people never look into the store, wondering how they can realize them without putting any effort into it.
The range of prices here is simply incredible. So, for the sake of good work, you need to sacrifice certainty and stability in life, be ready to plan your life, believe in yourself and stop blindly following the orders of other people.
For power, you need to give up your beliefs, learn to find a logical explanation for everything, say “no” to others, know intrinsic value, put your own interests above those of others. And also to declare yourself, regardless of support or rejection from the outside.
There are also some pretty strange prices. For example, marriage can be purchased almost for nothing. But happy marriage Very high price, suggesting personal responsibility for your happiness, your ability to enjoy life, your awareness of your needs and what you want to achieve. And also - mastering the art of appreciating what you already have, recognizing your value, refusing the status of a “victim”. And in some cases, there is a risk of breaking off communication with some relatives and friends.
Not all store visitors who are eager to realize their dreams are willing to pay this price. At the sight of some price tags, someone simply turns around and leaves. Others spend a long time counting their “savings”, trying to figure out where they can raise the required amount.
There are also those who complain about inflated prices, asking for a discount for themselves, or simply wondering when a sale is planned. And there are also individuals who are ready to spend absolutely all their money in order not only to get what they want, but also to package it in a beautiful wrapper.
A separate category of shoppers enviously looks at happy customers who managed to fulfill their desire, mistakenly assuming that they realized their dream thanks to a personal acquaintance with the store owner. Or maybe because they know the secret of making wishes come true without any effort.
The store owner was approached many times with a request to review prices and reduce them in order to attract more visitors. But he refused, because if the prices were reduced, the quality of the desires provided could suffer significantly.
If the owner is asked whether he is afraid of bankruptcy, he just shakes his head and says that there will always be daredevils who are ready to take risks and turn their world upside down. Those who are not satisfied with a predictable and routine life, or those who really believe in themselves and are ready to spend energy and time to make their dream come true.
By the way, on the door of this very wish shop there is a tiny poster on which it was written: “If your dream has not come true, it means you have not paid for it yet.”
Publisher: Gaya - March 06, 2019
Empaths have skills that everyone else wishes they had. Without a doubt, being a hyper-sensitive person in modern world- hard. However, this also has its own unique advantages.
Here are 4 superpowers that every empath has:
1. Mind reading.
Empaths tend to be very intelligent. They are able to determine the motives of others. They know how to distinguish bad from good. We can definitely say that this is a superpower!
2. The ability to recognize emotions and feelings.
Empaths are not only aware own feelings and emotions, but also those who surround them.
This ability could well be called another superpower of empathetic individuals. They are able to help not only themselves, but also others.3. The ability to turn negative into positive.
Empaths are great at distinguishing negative from positive. This skill allows them to find something good in any situation. This is truly a wonderful skill in the modern world!
Anyone can benefit from spending time in the company of an empath. Do you feel bad or very upset? A true empath can fix this and lift your spirits. You will look at the situation from a completely different angle.
4. Application of skills in practice.
Well, the superpowers of empaths can actually be practiced with success. Such people know how to accurately “read” those around them, therefore, by applying their skills, they can achieve great success. For example, in counseling, therapy and healing.
Yes and in Everyday life their ability to empathize and love makes the lives of the people around them much better!
Publisher: Gaya - March 06, 2019
More often than not, willpower is a function of success. It's easy to get things done when you enjoy what you're achieving. Here are some tips to help you achieve what you want.
Willpower is also a muscle; The more you train her, the stronger she becomes. But what if you need help getting things done right now? What if you can't wait for motivation to kick in? Start by organizing your life so that it supports your goals.
Eliminate unnecessary options
We have a limited supply of mental energy that we can spend on self-control. Some of us have more, some of us have less. But eventually everyone runs out of enthusiasm to fuel their willpower. Therefore than more solutions we need to take in a day, the greater the load on the brain, and the more we need to look for shortcuts.
With what fewer elections we face, the more correct our decisions will be. For example, is it difficult for you not to constantly check email. Then turn off all reminders about new letters and access your mail only when necessary. Make it difficult to check your email - then you will do it less often. Choice is the enemy of willpower (and accessibility and convenience).
Don't put it off until tomorrow
It is easier to make decisions if they are not urgent. For example, choose what you will wear tomorrow or what you will cook for breakfast or lunch next day– and prepare these dishes the night before. Or you can choose when you will go in for sports tomorrow - and pack sportswear.
This way, tomorrow your mental energy can be saved for making really important decisions. The power of routine will not only make you more efficient, but it will also make important decisions easier to make. When there aren't too many decisions to make, it's easy to avoid the fatigue and burnout associated with making them.
Do the hardest thing first
According to science, we have the most energy in the morning. That's why best time for making difficult decisions - morning. Decide what difficult things lie ahead of you and do them first.
Create reminders for long-term goals
You want to lose weight, but when you're mentally tired, it's easy to convince yourself that you'll start working out tomorrow instead of today. Mental fatigue makes you look for the easy way out—even though the easy way is usually the wrong way. The solution is simple: create reminders.
Someone attaches to the monitor a printout from the bank, which indicates the amount of his loan - in order to remember his obligation. Someone hangs a photo of themselves, 20 kilograms thicker, on the refrigerator as a reminder of what they no longer want to be.
Publisher: Gaya - March 06, 2019
Feel it inner freedom and your limitless creative potential.
This meditation aims to help us move beyond our usual boundaries and open up to new possibilities. It connects us to the central channel of the body, where creativity lives and where clarity and self-confidence arise.
Practice it for 11 minutes to free up space for energy and fresh ideas.
- Sit comfortably with your pelvis above your knees. Inhale through your nose, breathing deeply into your stomach. Feel how the light descends with the air. Exhale through your nose from bottom to top, feeling the light moving upward.
- Then add sensitivity and listening with a simple mudra that enhances creative clarity. Gather your hands into a bowl shape in front of your heart - little fingers touching, palms facing up.
- Breathe deeply into your belly through your nose and feel the quality of acceptance in your hands. Invite the source of your creativity into physical body, noticing any thoughts or sensations as they arise.
- Welcome your breath and watch it become longer and calmer with each breath cycle. As you create more stability in your body and breath, you create fertile soil for the seeds of your creativity.
- As you complete your meditation, imagine that you are inhaling light all the way down to your lower abdomen. Place your palms together in a prayer gesture (Anjali mudra) in front of your chest, at heart level. Exhalation comes from the stomach, from bottom to top; pull your navel center towards your spine, imagining how the light brightly illuminates your entire being and the entire surrounding space.
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Free yourself from guilt, accept yourself and feel your strength.
These 3 mantras will give you a feeling inner beauty and balance. You will be able to unleash your creative potential, realize your nobility and feel unconditional love to yourself.
Yogi Bhajan called these 3 affirmations the most powerful of all. Observe how the touch of the tongue to the roof of the mouth creates a vibration that balances all systems. These words will release your strength and the strength of every woman of your kind from the subconscious.
Practice
Sit in a comfortable position with a straight back, close your eyes, repeat affirmations from 3 to 31 minutes:
- God created me as a woman.
- To be a woman.
- Now. Now. Now.
You can repeat it in the original if you know English language: “God made me a woman.” I am a woman to be. Now.Now. Now."
"God created me as a woman"
This affirmation frees you from feelings of guilt, brings peace and a sense of satisfaction. If for some reason this particular wording does not suit you, change it so that you feel inner agreement.
"To be a woman"
This affirmation reveals your Creative skills, self-love, self-respect. She frees from internal conflict and crisis.
"Now. Now. Now"
This affirmation uplifts and helps you live face to face with the present. It gives strength of self-control and inner peace.
The material is compiled based on information from the book “I am a Woman” by Krishna Kaur.
Publisher: Gaya - March 06, 2019
Use the resourceful time of spring to feel alive and present.
If you don’t feel the joy of life and it seems to you that you are moving in a circle, these 5 steps will help you get out of a dead spot.
Get organized
Clear your space of everything that doesn't make you happy. Start cleaning out your wardrobe: feel free to get rid of everything that you haven’t worn for a long time, but “it’s a pity to throw it away, the thing seems good.” You can donate such clothes to a thrift store or give them to those in need.
Write down on a piece of paper all the qualities that you want to get rid of: for example, self-pity, being a victim, guilt, resentment, self-doubt, fear. List everything that prevents you from enjoying simple things - and burn this list.
Choose any meditation you like and do it every morning and every evening for 5 minutes for 3 weeks. Set the intention to open up to change, free yourself from old limiting programs and start laughing more.
Group energy can help you - create a community of like-minded people, even if it's just your sister and best friend. And agree to talk every day about discoveries, share everything that comes to you in meditation.
Keep your promises
Right now, take a piece of paper and write down everything you once promised but didn’t complete. Include in this list promises to yourself, as well as children's desires and dreams.
In return, you will receive a release of energy and an influx of joy. And if old unfulfilled obligations have completely lost their relevance, write yourself a letter in which you remove old restrictions and obligations from yourself.
Allow yourself all emotions
Observe carefully all the emotions that come - and do not try to hold them back or somehow get rid of them. Give yourself permission to feel anger, give yourself permission to cry as much as you need.
Accept and love all your thoughts and decisions. Actions. Get in touch with your inner child and give him unconditional love and understanding.
Dance
The main task is to connect movement with breathing. Turn on some music you like and start moving as if you are dancing your healing and release.
Don't watch your movements - let them be as ridiculous or crazy as you like! But be careful not to hold your breath. After 5 minutes of this dance, the body itself will begin to guide you - and then liberation will definitely happen.
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We often receive questions: “Why am I unable to achieve my goal? I do all the practices, work with intention, but nothing works! Well, when already..?”
You probably already guessed what the reason is. Yes - in most cases, nothing prevents us from achieving our desired goal. low level energy, no pendulums, no evil eye and no damage - namely, off-scale importance.
In Transurfing we call “importances”: fears, anxieties, doubts, indignation, dissatisfaction, irritation, restlessness, excitement, depression, confusion, despair, idealization, admiration, delight, disappointment, conceit, disgust, lust, impatience and a strong thirst to get something whatever you want.
However, we do not suggest that you fight with importance and try hard to suppress it, defeat it, get rid of it... We suggest that you first get to know it better so that it will be easier for you to “diagnose” certain manifestations of it in yourself.
And, having looked your “importances” and fears in the face, having realized them, it will be much easier for you to free yourself from them. Without fighting and suppressing emotions.
EXTERNAL IMPORTANCE
There are two types of importance: external and internal. External importance arises when you attach too much great importance some events or objects of the surrounding world.
For example, you are going for an interview, business meeting, negotiations, presentation, speaking at a conference, exam - and you’re terribly worried. You overstate the importance of this event:
- “What if I don’t succeed? What if everything doesn’t go according to plan?”;
- “If I fail this exam/interview/negotiation, my life is over!”;
- “I’ve been preparing for this my whole life!”
In itself, any event is neutral in its essence. And you can just go and take yours, what you want. Pass an interview, close a profitable deal, pass an exam, give a brilliant presentation... But you artificially inflate the importance and create excess potential that can ruin the whole thing.
If you realize this in time, you will be able to bring your feelings and emotions into balance by performing the practice of Transurfing to reduce importance or by performing internal adjustments and changing your state to a more effective one.
INTERNAL IMPORTANCE
Inner importance manifests itself as an overestimation of your strengths or weaknesses. It can greatly inflate your self-esteem or, conversely, give you a whole bunch of complexes.
In life, inner importance can take many different forms. For example, you decide that you are doing very important work that you are the most valuable employee of the company, and everyone else is no match for you.
Sooner or later, such a position will lead to the fact that your arrow self-importance will begin to go off scale, equilibrium forces will arise, and you will get a click on the nose. For example, make a serious mistake in your work and lose your bonus.
Or another example. Someone once told you that you have an ugly face/too tall/too short/an unpleasant voice. Or that you’re bad at your job/can’t do anything/total mediocrity.
Having succumbed to a sense of inner importance, you begin to look everywhere for confirmation of this, criticize yourself and engage in self-criticism, thereby programming yourself for failure and driving yourself into fears and depression.
Also, internal importance is the case when it seems to you that everyone is looking at you because: you have a stain on your jacket/a crease in your tights/a pimple on your forehead and so on. In fact, no one really cares about you - everyone is fixated only on themselves.
Manifestations of internal importance:
- “I am a very important person!”;
- “I am doing a terribly important job, no one can handle it except me”;
- “Everyone notices how ugly I am, squeaky voice, everyone laughs at me."
FACE YOUR “IMPORTANCES”!
Any importance - internal and external - makes your life very difficult. They are the very strings of the puppets to which the pendulums cling you. But there is good news: any importance is far-fetched. And you can refuse them at any time, simply by changing your attitude towards what is happening.
“Reducing your importance will not only significantly reduce the number of problems in your life. By giving up external and internal importance, you receive such a treasure as freedom of choice” (Vadim Zeland, “Reality Transurfing. Stage I”).
Think about it: maybe you don’t even notice how in everyday life this notorious importance becomes a stumbling block in realizing your true goals?
Right now we invite you to dive into yourself - and write down all your “importances” on a piece of paper in order to realize them and “face them.”
When you complete this practice, the sheet of paper can be burned and the “importance” can be reduced using Transurfing practices.
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Dear women! This article is dedicated to you. Dear men! This article will help you better understand women in the New Age.
Each woman is unique in her essence, she is beautiful with her own special beauty, endowed with unique talents, has her own individual merits and wonderful traits of character, appearance, and Soul. However, in our world of pendulum systems that absorb our attention and impose on us stereotyped standards of beauty and standards of success, it is very easy to lose your true self and forget about your uniqueness.
Many girls and women constantly stumble over the same questions:
- “How can I love and accept my body if I have a big nose/overweight/bow legs?”
- “Do I deserve more if I still don’t understand what my purpose is?”
- “As the years go by, wrinkles appear on my face, and it seems that I am missing something important.”
- “How can I find myself, my path?”
- “Will I be able to meet the man of my dreams and create a happy relationship?”
- “Is it possible to be absolutely healthy and remain young?”
At some point you begin to feel that everything that happens to you is not your life. You feel that there is another reality in which you can be happy. But you don't understand how to get there. How to create a different life, filled with joy, love, harmony and prosperity?
Even if they tell you: “This is possible, especially now, in the energies of the New Time!”, your mind will not believe it. He will say “No” and bring great amount arguments. And only your Soul knows and feels that before our eyes a time of powerful changes and positive transformations is coming, in which everything is truly possible!
It's no secret that the life credo of great people is one hundred percent self-confidence and success. The great ones never doubt and know for sure that sooner or later they will find themselves at the destination that they have planned for themselves.
All great people have had a dream. Some people think that dreams are Waste time, but the more often we dream, the closer we are to total improvement own life. The thing is that if a person does not have a dream, he does not know which direction to move in order to achieve happiness and inner harmony. A dream charges us with energy and gives us the strength to overcome obstacles.
Life credo great people can also be described as resisting stereotypes. For example, society may be dominated by the misconception that one cannot become an artist without higher art education. But in reality, many great artists had virtually no education. Perhaps there are a minority of them, but no one is stopping you from becoming an outstanding person, if you really want it.
One of the main qualities successful people– this is stress resistance. If you don't know how to treat stressful situations, then you will not be able to achieve high results in life. Your self-esteem should always be adequately high, otherwise you will always doubt yourself and depend on the assessment of other people, you will always lose heart when someone says a rude word to you public transport, and you will constantly seek the praise of others instead of realizing your own life plans. You must always look for support in yourself. Remember that only you can the best way evaluate your personality, if only because no one knows more about you than you yourself.
Any problem is a source of development and access to new level. Look back into the past, and you will probably see dozens of situations where problems motivated you for personal growth.
If you decide to achieve a goal, follow this decision relentlessly, even if the whole world is against you. If you easily retreat and listen to the opinions of losers, you will sit in the same swamp in which they sit. Remember that most people around you do not want you to surpass them in anything. They feel more comfortable sitting in a swamp when there are many others sitting there.
There will be many failures on the path to success. This truth must be accepted from the very beginning. Although, maybe you will be lucky and you will be able to reach your goal without a hitch. But even if you fall, you must get up and continue on your way. After all, life is a journey, not a destination. And only those who have proven that they are worthy of success win big victories. And this can only be proven by steadfastness, firm faith and iron will. Those who quickly give up are not entitled to any life bonuses, because they are simply unworthy of them.
In order to get what you want from life, it is important to constantly study and learn new things. Life is development. If there is no development, then death is not far off. What a pity that most people forget this and stop studying after graduating from university.
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Many have probably encountered scientific articles, newspaper articles or even in church tracts with the word "creed". Although the spelling of this word remains unchanged, lexical meaning, which it carries, can be interpreted differently depending on the field of application. Below we provide definitions, examples and interpretation of this term to help you understand what a credo is.
Definitions of the term
The Creed is the third part of the Catholic chant during Mass. It is called so according to the first word Latin name"Credo in unum Deum", which is translated from dead language means "I believe in one God." Of course, people rarely encounter this term in this interpretation.
A creed is the personal belief of one person or group of people in true purpose. These foundations inextricably accompany the highest mission of a person, in which he believed at a certain stage of his life. Let us give several examples of the life credo of representatives of various professions to understand what a credo is for each of them
Teacher's life credo
The man who made conscious choice profession of a teacher, believes that his credo is to teach children, transfer knowledge to them and instruct them on the right way. The teacher believes that his work will help shape the student’s personality, and the accumulated experience will be useful many times in life in the future. The teacher's credo is that he sees himself exclusively as a mentor to the younger generation and will not be able to feel comfortable doing anything else.
Doctor's Creed
The doctor’s life credo lies in his desire to save people’s lives and take care of their health. Having once decided to take the Hippocratic oath, the physician firmly believes that his task for all the remaining years is to cure the patient’s illnesses, relieve pain and return the person to a full life.
Creed of politics
A man who decided to become statesman, considers the main duty of his life to be the development of the country he serves and concern for the social well-being of all citizens. Its activities are aimed at improving the material and spiritual level life within the power, as well as strengthening its authority at the global level. This is the life credo of a politician.
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